[Anonymous Anonymous]

Hi Salmha, I’m really sorry to hear this. How are you feeling? Please remember that we are here to support you x

[Anonymous Anonymous]

Hi Sophie, just like another person heartbroken..I know they say always be prepared if its unsuccessful..but the hopes are so high that you forget that lows. I’m broken and I can’t understand why when everything went so good..I worked hard to get nhs treatment because I couldn’t afford it privately…put my body through changes and drugs I was so positive so hyped up..I feel disappointed, somewhat embarrassed to face work people..I was expecting to have a baby through this. I’ve read about the possibilities of why the embryologist couldn’t answer why fertilisation wasn’t taking place..but I feel its so vague..and yes end of the day they did the best..but surely an answer as to why not. They offered me and partner a review end of May..I just feel like u broke me down over the telephone and then u want me to wait for answers because my body needs to be free of all the extra drugs I put inside it…mentally I’m strong emotionally I’m weak..but I’ve got 1000 things going through my head questioning am I never going to be a mum…I’m 39 and I’ve never tried to conceive..and now I feel like is this it..I know there’s loads of women going through similarly as me..and my heart feels for them. I dont want to give up hope but im definitly not going to go into my review with a full heart of expecting a baby with the way your made to feel… 🙁

[Anonymous Anonymous]

The same happened to me. My egg didn’t fertilise, despite using icsi. It’s heartbreaking but I do think that the first round can be a bit of a fact finding mission and trial and error.
I think you are very strong and I’m sending positive vibes your way. I hope you get some answers and feel a bit better soon. Xx

[Anonymous Anonymous]

Aww, thankyou so much BS2, your right it’s trial and error..to be honest i did question the nurse why was it with the drugs my ovaries weren’t producing as many eggs as my natural system..but like u she said some bodies don’t like the control. It is a body shock. But it’s disheartening nevertheless. I’ll wait to see what happens on the review. How are you in terms of your journey..xx

[Anonymous Anonymous]

Wishing you both all the best on your journey, my thoughts are with you xx

[Salmha]

Hi, everyone..I was ment to have my first icsi experience. Sadly no embryos developed for transfer day..has anyone experienced this? Its my first time. All my reports were good so I don’t understand why the eggs weren’t fertilising with the sperm..:(

[Anonymous Anonymous]

Never give up. I say so because I have been there and I am a mom of two IVF twins. Failure is not an option

[Anonymous Anonymous]

Aww Vee, that’s so lovely to hear. It always makes me happy when the inevitable happens when u keep falling..aww i really hope i can also embrace motherhood..aww thankyou for the positive energy xx

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